Monday, June 29, 2009

How many dates do people nowadays wait to have sex when first dating?

Well it depends on the quality of the dates. If you connected and had deep conversation within three dates then that's fine. If you go on ten dates and never had any real connection or spark, then why would you get in bed. Its really case-by-case basis. Another thing, at the age of 30s, usually its fewer dates especially if you hit it off from the start. The first date is never advisable because it might give the impression that that's what you're in for or that you sleep around too. Having sex too early and then having a serious relationship should not affect the relationship. If both parties are serious about each other, time is not a factor, just feelings.


This reminds me of Charlotte off "Sex and the City". Always looking for the perfect answer regarding dating, relationships, or sex. The thing is, I don't think there is any cut and dry answer to any of these questions


But, thats YOUR EXPERIENCE. There is no real time and anybody who tries to give you a number of weeks, days, minutes or months is an idiot, straight up. When you are comfortable is the real answer. I will say that having sex on the first date brings your chances down to have a real relationship. Not because it cant happen, but because of the way that both parties think. How many time has he or she down this? And they always have doubts. But reality is if people want to make it work, they make it work. The number one reason for break up is communication. Sex is up there on the list but still. if people communicate they can get around most of their difference. So the real answer is whenever you are ready. Whether you have sex on the first date or 3 weeks later, its still sex. Nothing has changed. its only in your head.

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Michael Jackson: A Legend with Soulful Voice of an Angel

Michael Jackson won 13 Grammys and scored 17 No. 1 hits, with and without his brothers. He died at age 50 in Los Angeles. Michael Jackson, the child singing sensation with the soulful voice of a fiery angel who went on to moonwalk his way to the title "King of Pop" by recording the best selling album in music history, died Thursday in Los Angeles. He was 50.Admirers around the world mourn Michael Jackson's death.Michael Jackson has been a legend since childhood. Check out pictures of his star-studded, and sometimes troubled, life.It marked a sudden end to a life that veered too often into a bizarre, scandal-plagued soap opera over the 27 years since the release of “Thriller.” His death came as he was planning a comeback he hoped would cement his legacy as the leading entertainer of his time -- as well as the head of a musical dynasty that gave the world the Jackson 5 and his superstar sister, Janet.Michael Joseph Jackson was born on Aug. 29, 1958, the seventh of nine children of Joe and Katherine Jackson, a God-fearing couple from hard-scrabble Gary, Indiana.Joe Jackson, a steel mill worker, was a stern, belt-wielding taskmaster who molded Michael and his older brothers, Tito, Jermaine, Jackie and Marlon through sheer terror, intimidation and determination into the Jackson 5. By the time he was 10, Michael was the group’s frontman -- frontboy, really -- providing the leading vocals on such hits as “I Want You Back,” “ABC” and the ballad “I’ll Be There.”The Motown act soared to international superstardom, thanks to a string of hugely successful albums, appearances on numerous TV programs -- there was even a Jackson 5 cartoon show -- and near-constant touring. It seemed at time that young Michael, who had the poise of a performer far beyond his years and experience, was being robbed of his childhood – a theme that would come to haunt him in the years to follow.With Jackson nearing adulthood, and the Jackson 5 past its pop prime as a kiddie act, he began striking out on his own, appearing in the 1978 movie version of "The Wiz." He played the Scarecrow to the Dorothy of Diana Ross, the Motown mother figure whom he worshipped. Some would say he wanted to sculpt his face to look like her.Jackson established himself as a major songwriter and musical force in his own right with the 1979 album “Off The Wall.” The record, produced by Quincy Jones, who would become Jackson’s new mentor and father figure, yielded such genre-bending, danceable hits as “Rock With You” and “Don’t Stop 'Til You Get Enough.”But that was just a taste of the greatness to come.In 1982, Jackson, again with Jones by his side in the recording studio, released “Thriller,” which would go onto spawn nearly as many hits as tracks on the album. The gamut of pop was incredible – he dabbled with hard rock on the driving “Beat it,” which featured a blistering, but radio-friendly guitar solo by Eddie Van Halen; the dance-hit title track birthed perhaps the most adventurous and famous music video of all time; “The Girl is Mine” paired him on a sappy, earworm of a love song with Paul McCartney.But Jackson re-invented pop music with his biggest hit of all: “Billie Jean,” which combined a Sly Stone-like funk groove and searing falsetto vocal with an R&B and rock sensibility that could get the dead tapping their toes. His moonwalking-filled performance of the song on a TV special celebrating Motown’s 25th anniversary established him as the pre-eminent star of his time – and maybe the most electrifying performer ever."Thriller" sold 27 million copies in the U.S. alone, and 51 million overall, giving it a place in the Guinness Book of World Records as the top selling album of all time. He sold some 750 million records in total, placing behind only the Beatles and Elvis.The Rock and Roll Hall of Famer won 13 Grammys -- eight for "Thriller" alone -- and scored 17 No. 1 hits, with and without his brothers.Jackson's influence reached far beyond the sales figures and awards. His innovative music videos were a staple of MTV in the 1980s, as the music network became a powerful symbol of youth culture. His dance moves, from moonwalking to the crotch grabbing antics that made the old ladies blush, were widely imitated on stages and club floors around the world. His noveau-Sgt. Pepper military jacket, aviator sunglasses and his ever-present white glove shook the fashion world, earning him the nickname "The Gloved One."Perhaps most significantly his music and popularity bridged racial and ethnic chasms like no other artist before or since.In the years following “Thriller,” Jackson would produce more hit albums, including, “Bad” and “Dangerous.” He co-wrote the 1985 single "We Are the World," which brought together a supergroup of stars from across a wide musical spectrum to raise millions for starving people in Africa.But the news that would dog Jackson in the last half of his life centered around, at best, his eccentricities as a boy who never grew up, and at worst, a perpetrator of unspeakable child abuse. Fans were more likely to see his picture in the Star or National Enquirer than Billboard or Rolling Stone as odd behavior mushroomed into outright scandal.There was his incredibly shrinking and shape-changing nose. There was his ever-lightening skin, which he attributed to a condition called vitiligo.There was his reported attempt to buy the Elephant Man's bones. He succeeded in buying the publishing rights to the Beatles' catalog, infuriating McCartney, who felt Jackson went behind his back.There was the Peter Pan-inspired Neverland Ranch, complete with rides, and a menagerie – including a chimp named Bubbles. There were sleepovers by child stars, like Macaulay Culkin, and lesser-known kids – including a 13-year-old boy who charged Jackson molested him. The case was settled out of court in 1994. Similar accusations would haunt Jackson a decade later, painting him as a sicko who plied a young cancer survivor with wine he called "Jesus juice." A circus of a trial ended with his acquittal in 2005.Then there were the apparent sham marriages, one to Lisa Marie Presley, daughter of Elvis, another music king whose downfall and early death he would come to mirror. Jackson and Lisa Marie, whose awkward kiss at the 1994 MTV Music Award was a less-than-convincing declaration of their love, broke up after two years. He later married -- and divorced -- his dermatologist's nurse, Debbie Rowe. Jackson fathered three children -- two of whom he named Prince Michael.He would walk the streets with a surgical mask over his face, and even donned a burka. He dangled his infant son from a hotel balcony in Germany in 2002 – the most public and craziest of the stunts that had more people calling him Wacko Jacko than the King of Pop.Jackson's 2001 album "Invincible," proved anything but -- it was a $30 million flop that effectively put his music career on hiatus. Beset by money and seemingly insurmountable image problems, Jackson -- once the highest paid entertainer in the world -- sold Neverland in 2005. He started showing up in Bahrain, where a prince later accused him of defaulting on a $7 million loan.While fans and the press should have learned never to be shocked by Jackson, he surprised entertainment world recently by signing on for a series of 50 shows beginning this summer in London. The concerts were set to start July 13, though there was talk of postponements amid reports of Jackson suffering from an undisclosed illness. Tickets were snapped up by fans uncertain whether they were going to witness the greatest comeback in pop history or another ring in what had become a traveling circus.Now the world will never know whether the boy who never grew up would end his career as a man worthy of his title as King of Pop, or as a sad court jester.

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

WOW - "Cash for Clunkers"!

Congress has passed the Automotive Stimulus bill "Cash for Clunkers" and is a plan aimed at stimulating car purchases in America. The program provides $4,500 in credit to owners who trade in a current car for a more fuel-efficient and environmentally vehicle. The program will provide the $4,500 to owners whose current car gets less than 18mpg and if they buy a car with more than 10mpg improvement in mileage over their previous vehicle. If a buyer chooses a car with 4mpg more in economy than their current car, they can get $3,500 in credit. SUV and Truck owners also qualify under different procedures. Congress hopes the programs will remove some of the most polluting vehicles from the streets and stimulate the hard hit automotive industry at the same time.

Monday, June 22, 2009

Obama has accepted an invitation to attend the opening ceremony of the 2010 World Cup final

US President Barack Obama has accepted an invitation to attend the opening ceremony of the 2010 World Cup final in Johannesburg on 11 June. "But you know that heads of state are extremely busy and hopefully his schedule will allow him to attend," he added. Blatter was replying to questions relating to security and how confident Fifa was of a successful World cup being hosted by South Africa. The opening ceremony would be performed at the new ultra modern 100 000-seater Soccer City. The match would feature either hosts Bafana Bafana or defending world champions Italy. Obama, whose father was born in Kenya, had never visited Africa as the leader of the free world. Blatter again stressed he had full confidence in South Africa's ability to host a successful World Cup. "In past years the reason that the World Cup has never been staged in Africa is because people in the rest of the world did not trust Africa. "I trust Africa and South Africa. It is time the rest of the world did the same. The world will see a fantastic spectacle in Africa in 2010. South Africa are going to make everyone proud of Africa." The test event, the Confederations Cup, was a success on and off the field and augured well for the 2010 showpiece. "The Confederations Cup is a sort of dress rehearsal where we can iron out problems. It has been a major success. My worry at the start of the competition was that some stadiums were not full, and that has been rectified by the local organising committee. "Now that Bafana Bafana are through to the semifinals we can expect full houses during the semifinals and final." Blatter, paraphrasing Obama, said: "South African can do it." Problems that arose with ticketing and transport would be solved by 2010, he added. The world soccer chief added that it was not about Fifa making millions of dollars from the Confederations Cup and World Cup in South Africa. He explained: "The finances are not as important as it is to give something back to Africa, and that is what Fifa is doing with the 2010 World Cup. Africa deserve to stage the World Cup." He reiterated that under no circumstances would vuvuzelas be banned at the World Cup. Foreign media and teams competing in the Confederations Cup had complained about the "buzzing noise" at matches. "Banning them no, in fact I will blow one of the vuvuzelas at my press conference in Johannesburg on Friday. Vuvuzelas make the South Africa game come alive. It is part of the local culture and adds to the flavour of SA soccer."

Obama to announce agreement with drug companies

President Barack Obama will make a formal announcement Monday welcoming the weekend agreement by the pharmaceutical industry to help close a gap in prescription drug coverage under Medicare.The president has invited Barry Rand, head of the senior citizens' advocacy group AARP, to appear with him.The drug companies have pledged to spend $80 billion over the next decade to help reduce the cost of drugs for seniors and pay for a portion of Obama's health care legislation.The deal was struck with Sen. Max Baucus, the chairman of the Senate Finance Committee, as well as the White House.Their industry shrinking, their projects on hold, their access to capital choked off, a subdued and sparse group...

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Why does Obama support Bush's policy of endless detention in Afghanistan but not at Gitmo

Bagram Air Base, the main US air base in Afganistan, was attacked with rockets. Two US soldiers were killed and six personnel were wounded. This attack is considered quite rare. Bagram is 40 kilometers northeast of Kabul...

I have heard from him in a little over a month... its tearing me apart and i dont know what to do or how to handle any of this... what should i do? He was supposed to be back in december of last year but was forced to stay for another six months. i spoke to him after the news but now its been over a month since ive last heard from him... some friends tell me to move on but the ones that are also in the service tell me not to listen to them.. im just so confused all over this..

What do you feel about Sunday's upcoming match? EGYPT v. US

if egypt won usa after the win of egypt....will they play spain or the 2nd on group a1? pls answer fastif italy against brazil and we won us by bigger score we can draw with brazil by points but we will have more goals coz now egypt have "4 goals" and scored on us 4 so we r "0" brazil is"4" so it depends on italy to win brazil like 2-0 and we must win usa 3-0